A Single Mom's Guide To Home Improvement

When I bought my house nine years ago, my son wasroughly the same time. Getting to know my neighbors
about to turn three and I reveled in the security ofand talking to them about home improvement has
owning my slice of the American dream. Being a singlehelped me get a sense of what to plan for. For
mom was (and is!) both challenging and rewarding, but Iexample, two years ago I began to see that the
knew that having a house to call my own was thehouses around me were starting to get new roofs.
best thing that ever happened to my son and me. MyAlthough I didn't have a leaky roof, a few months ago I
house was ten years old when I bought it, and it wasdecided to re-roof. I wanted to be proactive so I didn't
in excellent condition. Still, as time passed, a variety ofget stuck with the expense of drywall repairs in
issues cropped up. I think my way of handling (or notaddition to the cost of a new roof.
handling) home improvements is fairly typical for single4. Ask for referrals, and then check them yourself.
women who own their own homes.Through my neighbors' referrals, I've been able to find
Hopefully, my experiences will help you navigate thea superb roofer, an impeccable exterior house painter,
waters of home improvement. Here's what I'veand a terrific tile guy. But I don't just rely on their word. I
learned:always - repeat, always - check with my state's
1. You can go places with a good book and a toolbox.contractor licensing board to verify their licenses and
The Christmas of the year I moved in, my sister andwith the Better Business Bureau to check on past
brother-in-law gave me a toolbox filled with the basics:complaints. I get all estimates in writing, and ask for
screwdrivers, wrenches, a hammer, nails, nuts andproof of insurance.
bolts, and so forth. They also gave me a book on5. Don't put your head in the sand. There has been
basic home repairs. Their gift literally provided me withmore than one occasion when I've chosen not to deal
the tools I needed, but it also gave me confidence thatwith a home improvement issue, and I've always
I could tackle minor home improvement projects. Myregretted it. I knew, for example, that the exterior of
advice: invest in some tools and use a book or onlinemy fireplace had some dry rot. Unfortunately, by letting
sources to guide you through the routine maintenanceit go for so long it cost me much more than if I would
that your house requires.have dealt with it immediately.
2. Ask for advice. As a single woman who is now 496. Make a list. This last bit of advice is basic, but critical.
years old and has limited knowledge of more complexStart and keep a home improvement list. As a single
home improvement issues, I'm always afraid that I'll bemom, it's all too easy to get caught up in the hectic
taken advantage by a repair company. When my airpace of daily life and let routine home maintenance fall
conditioner conked out on a 100-plus degree day, forby the wayside. I divide my home improvement list into
example, I had no way of knowing if I really needed athree sections: one for items that need attention in the
new unit. I've learned to call on neighbors, familynext three months; one for home improvement
members, and friends - whose collective knowledgeprojects for the coming year; and one that maps out
exceeds mine - to get their impressions. They'vewhat I want to accomplish with the house over the
steered me in the right direction on a number ofnext five years. The short- and medium-term lists keep
occasions.me motivated, while my long-term list helps me save
3. Keep tabs on the neighbors. All of the houses in mythe money needed for the big-ticket items.
immediate vicinity were built by the same builder at